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Both subs and doms had lower levels of the stress hormone cortisol after scenes than before. The foundations of the BDSM community, such as safewords, aftercare and constant communication, lend themselves to secure, mutually satisfying experiences that often bring couples closer together.

That foggy, relaxing feeling is likely due to hormonal changes. Disclosure is a privacy and a boundary issue.

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Researchers surveyed BDSM practitioners and non-participants, and found that those who enjoyed BDSM-related activities had shared certain psychological characteristics, like being "less neurotic, more extraverted, more open to new experiences, more conscientious and less rejection-sensitive" than the control or vanilla group. And then it hit me.

In short, BDSM practitioners' sex lives made them a whole lot less stressed. A study conducted last year by Northern Illinois University recruited 14 "switches," or regular BDSM practitioners who enjoy both submissive and dominant roles.

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